Sunday, May 23, 2010

If I have to struggle to pay bills and looking for a part time job why do I need a man?

i ask the same thing but need a woman. i just wnat that void filled after being hurt twice before. i am like you...alot but im living to be happy and hopfully i can find someone to share a life withand be happy.
If I have to struggle to pay bills and looking for a part time job why do I need a man?
Well, you certainly do not need another job, if that's what you mean.





I feel you. Look for one who isn't just out for himself. There are a few out there--most of them are still married, but not all.
Reply:It depends. Do you have a man at the moment? Is that what you are saying? Actually, right now most people, married and unmarried are struggling to pay their bills. It all depends on whether you prefer to be alone ar love someone enough to want to be with them in a partnership.
Reply:You will realize you need a man for wierd stuff like when you accidentally set the house on fire or a pipe bursts in the middle of the night. I realized I needed a man when I caught my self carrying a bunch of crap every day and it was so heavy that I said to myself "This would be so much eaiser if I had a boyfriend" lol.
Reply:A man (or woman) should not ever be needed for support or financial support or gain! Being with someone should be for the right reasons in order for it to be real.





Mary in Camden, MI
Reply:You dont. Thousands of women struggle just like you. But they do it. Stop whining.
Reply:to change the light bulbs... open pickle jars... reach things on top shelves... and take out the trash
Reply:I ask myself the same question every day. When I was married I had the same scenario I have now. I worked sometimes two jobs, cared for the children, house, paid the bills as best I could and had no sex.





Now that I am divorced, I work sometimes two jobs, care for the children, the house, pay the bills as best I can and I have no sex. Nothing has changed except the weight loss and I have better self esteem.





The fact is, I will probably always be single, dateless and working two jobs, caring for the children, the house, paying bills and i have actually given up on sex....hardly ever think about it anymore soon, it will never enter my mind.





Things work out. Maybe not like we want, but it's bearable.
Reply:you can get a room mate
Reply:Cos you need love and care
Reply:Something to warm your feet on in bed? Or a dog works just as well.


You shouldn't NEED a man. You are much better off Wanting a man not needing
Reply:a healthier income situation
Reply:it's not a question of weather you need a man . it's more about what you want . always remember that .

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